When i see others are doing , then why not I.
And what I am doing , will i be able to do it after doing that.
Then think if I will do those things (lose character) , I will loose some thing that may be my relationship with others .
With my family , my parents, my friends , brothers and sister and with my wife with whom i am going to live my next phase of life.
Somewhere this thing affects others relations in your life , and leads to some terrible feelings .
Be brave avoid such thoughts , think what you have to achieve and at what positions you are.
Believe me , In Purity there is joy , flavor of life , relations in life, Don’t do any thing which hurts your soul or you do without consulting your inner person.
One More thing what Purity and character gives you is -1) Confidence that comes from the core of your heart and Inspiration
2) You can start loving any person any time . You understand feeling more. And You are Loved More , thar is the best thing humanity have is human love that crosses every bondages . and touches the heart and soul.
3). You are more close to god and humans…
4). You have the inspiration to accomplish any goal of life..
It’s my experience .
Don’t hesitate in doing things which are right .
But thing twice doing what is wrong..
Just for example think a situation where you are indulge in such type of activities . Your mind will be occupied with such dirty things. concentration will be affected . Performance will be be lowered. And relationships will break, and whole day mind will be occupied by these thoughts . you will loose all the taste of life.essence of every relation that a human have on this earth.
So. Leave this area Your love is with your wife . start from your family love them do for your Nation.
Salute yourself for this thinking. because there is good rituals in your heart thats why you are able to think like this
Salute to parents who gave us this all.
But think at the same time , if you have loving heart , and you finds the love of your life , the whole world will change instantly, all the brightness will come to your feet, the feelings , ahsaas , zindagi ki wo chandani, and the melody of life that you will with the person , . so leave all this to feel that incident and time. Don’t ruin that precious human love. That is the correct . you will be with true love of your life, with whom you can achieve every happiness and any goal.
That s the love that is between parents, that gives them a way , a point that they should live and after that their full love changes towards their children
So go for such true love , understand others love and feel this life, it is very deep. Feel it. Love it. Understand it.
Remember that try to become a person on whom your parents, teachers , brothers , country can proud . Become a reason of their happiness ., their goal. that’s the way to live a pride life. not the one full with individual luxury and enjoyment .
Kuch paane ke liye kuch chodhna padata hai,
and you have every thing in best way , so go with pride.
Your life is someone whole life hard work remember it always.
Till now i have experienced that it is not our eyes what sees in the world, it is our mentality and own insight that makes our eyes to see what we wants to see.