There is a proverb that what you you give , it comes back to you.
To live a life that you plans for yourself requires you to have character . If you are doing one thing results will back to you in future . this is bitter truth. so control your life. Respect the life, rituals inherited by you .
You have only one decision and two options . YES or NO.
If yes you will somehow loose other thing. and this will be replaced by other happiness .
If No you will never be far from your soul.
It will give you the essence of living . enjoy what you deserve being human. So leave temporary pleasure , go fro some Solid thing that you wants to be permanent for you.